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HER: "Sex - The Most Important Thing In Marriage"

"Sex is the most important thing in a marriage. If you think it's not, you're the spouse holding out."- Jess Steinholtz
My friend, "Jess Steinholtz" (not her real name), will be introduced in The Exquisite Pain of Waiting, book two in our Guardian Angel series. Jess, an archaeologist who lives on the east coast, has been married for decades. I love biblical archaeology, so connected with her years ago. She's brilliant, respected among her peers, and a devout Catholic. So, the vitriol below is a warning for wives who think it's non-consequential to hold out on their husbands.
Jess wanted all of you "cold-hearted wives" (her words, not mine) to actually know what it feels like when you hold out on your husband. Because while she adores her husband, she is the one more interested in sex. He loves her, but is a high-powered professional, also nationally recognized in his industry. So, he works long hours, 7 days a week.

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